build: update to rules_nodejs 1.3.0 (#35430)

Brings in feat: builtin: expose @npm//foo__all_files filegroup that includes all files in the npm package (https://github.com/bazelbuild/rules_nodejs/commit/8d77827) that is needed for npm_integration_test @npm//puppeteer pkg_tar on OSX (as the OSX Chrrome libs are extracted to paths that contain spaces)

PR Close #35430

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@@ -8,8 +8,8 @@ load("@bazel_tools//tools/build_defs/repo:http.bzl", "http_archive")
 # Fetch rules_nodejs so we can install our npm dependencies
 http_archive(
     name = "build_bazel_rules_nodejs",
-    sha256 = "6bcef105e75cac3c5f8212e0d0431b6ec1aaa1963e093b0091474ab98ecf29d2",
-    urls = ["https://github.com/bazelbuild/rules_nodejs/releases/download/1.2.2/rules_nodejs-1.2.2.tar.gz"],
+    sha256 = "b6670f9f43faa66e3009488bbd909bc7bc46a5a9661a33f6bc578068d1837f37",
+    urls = ["https://github.com/bazelbuild/rules_nodejs/releases/download/1.3.0/rules_nodejs-1.3.0.tar.gz"],
 )
 
 # Check the bazel version and download npm dependencies
@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@ Try running `yarn bazel` instead.
     minimum_bazel_version = "2.0.0",
 )
 
-check_rules_nodejs_version(minimum_version_string = "1.2.2")
+check_rules_nodejs_version(minimum_version_string = "1.3.0")
 
 # Setup the Node.js toolchain
 node_repositories(